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Great
Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before
going out on your date. There is nothing worse
than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date insist on
having
something to eat before the actual kiss, make
sure
you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't
take
the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum.
You
don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
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Moist
Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your
tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't
wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't
wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner
to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to
move
your lips over your partner's and gives both you
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Positioning
- Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together
tilt
your head slightly to one side. If you don't,
don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head
slightly
so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss
you
straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is
tilting,
tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
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Close
Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer
to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But
until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your
eyes.
Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one
another's
eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite
enjoyable.
You may want to try kissing this way
once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.
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Open
Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's
lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through
your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's.
You
may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular
motion or just leave them still over your partners.
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Closed
Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt.
Instead
of opening your mouth when your lips meet,
keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know
this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great
hello/good-bye
kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
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Hands
- There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The
most
popular way is to put one hand on your partner's
waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other
ways
to use your hands are to cup your partner's face
in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck,
put
them around their waist, hold your partner's upper
or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just
hold
their hands in yours. |
French
Kissing This
is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue
with
your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant
experience.
There are a few tips to create a great French kiss.
Relax
- You lips should be relaxed, you body should be relaxed, otherwise it
will be like kissing a dead fish for the other
person.
There are only two things involved in a French kiss: your lips
and
your tongue. That's it! Open
Lips - Your lips should be slightly parted, not open wide like you're
at
the dentist. Open them just far enough, just like
you are regularly breathing through your mouth.
Positioning
- Do not have your face dead on to his/hers, otherwise your noses will
touch. You want to move your head to
one
side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. If you
think about it then, with your head tilted one way and
his
the other way, your mouths will not reach dead on. Your mouths
will
meet at the corner of the other's mouth. |
The
Tongue- Practice on your own if you'd
like. Open your mouth enough (while you're by yourself of
course!)
just enough to stick
a bit of your tongue out. It will go past your teeth. Don't
stick your entire tongue out... just an inch or two. That is
how
far you should stick your tongue out in a kiss. So your tongue
will
go into their mouth and theirs will go into yours.
When
this happens, both of your tongues will touch. Then just circle
the
tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they
do
something different (because you have to remember that everyone kisses
differently so some may move their tongue around
a bit differently) then just do the same as they do. They may
flick
their tongue over yours and you can do the same.
Or they explore the inside of your mouth with their tongue, do the same
thing! Or you can just lightly touch their tongue
while they are exploring. The best thing is to NOT just leave
your
tongue doing nothing. As
for movement of the head, that is entirely up to you. Some people
will move their heads very slightly in a small circular
motion
or figure eight. Sometimes they won't. Sometimes just one
person
moves their head and the other doesn't. It's totally
up to you. You
may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of
your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this
slowly
and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
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Suck
Kissing This
can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with
your
mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted
suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or
two.
Then go back to another type of kiss or try the
other lip. |
Nip
Kissing
This
type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can
create
a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck
kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt
your
partner. This kiss should only be done with someone
that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your
partner. |
Surprise
Kissing This
type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the
ground,
either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed.
Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on
their
lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens
their eyes or awakens. |
Vacuum
Kissing This
is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply
so you're sucking the air from your partner. |
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Cordial
Kissing Take
a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and
then
when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's
mouth. Only take a very small sip. |
Butterfly
Kissing Put
your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes
upon
their skin. You can also do this on their lips.
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Melt
Kissing Pass
an
ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing. |
Marathon
Kissing See
how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes straight)
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Glow
stick Frenzy Pass
the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).
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Tongue
Sucking When
you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck
on
their tongue as far as you can. Don't suck
to hard, you don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise it's very
pleasing! |
Candy
Kiss Use
either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard candy/mint. Either
you
or your partner place the candy in your/their
mouth
and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to
keep the candy in their mouth while the other
person
tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and
lips.
This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!!
Enjoy. |
Sigh
Kiss When
you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the
tip
of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips,
causing
a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.
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The
Tickle Kiss In this
kiss you make use of the fact
that the roof of the
mouth is the
most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal
French
kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue
across the roof of each other's mouth.
This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the
winner
is the person who can stand them because
the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is
different
every time and always fun. |
Name
Kiss If
you have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This
works very well and everyone likes it! |
Starburst
Trick Put
a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it!
Enjoy! |
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Tongue
Wars Each
person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they
try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person
"blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick
the next type of kiss. This game is great for
reliving
first make-out tension. |
Pop
Kiss Use
pop-rocks, great fun. You've heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!
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Ring
Kiss What
you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then
while
you and your partner are french kissing, he
tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!
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Tongue
Tease When
you're French kissing, if when you pull back, and before your mouths
meet
again, you can flick your tongue up and down
quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very
teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist
going
strong after a while of flicking. |
Touch
Kiss You
do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed
alot.
What you do is just simply touch tongues -like the tip of your
tongue.
You may want to move it around but you don't have to. You
don't
do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.
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Underwater
Kiss Have
your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you
give
them air. |
Moving
Kiss Make
sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French
kissing
gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind
them.
Very good for serious couples or just beginners.
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Kissing
Flavor Put
a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just
before
you and your partner
French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how
long
it takes for the
flavor to run out! |
Chin
Kiss Hold
your partner's chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their
head
in the right direction. Continue to hold it as
you
kiss. |
Lip
Venom Before
you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't
looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets
and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to
your
lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and
can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after
applying. When
your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running
through
his lips for the rest of the day. |
Pepper
Kiss Take
a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It gives
the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you
or
your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin
the
kiss.) |
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